MANY Brits will be surprised to learn that the Government are cracking down on adult material on the internet, however not everyone will see this as a bad thing.
"By my early teens I’d seen jazz mags and porn videos, but the first time I really noticed porn was all around was when I went on my first lads’ holiday to Magaluf aged 18. "By 24, I was in a long-term relationship that lasted nine years. As I began having regular sex, my urge to look at porn daily decreased, but I still indulged in hotel rooms when abroad on trips.
"I eventually managed to do the deed, but on the way home the experience really got me thinking. While porn can help improve fantasies, it can also cement a hard ceiling on top by leaving nothing to the imagination."Now, three months on from my hospital experience, I still reflect on the impact that porn use has had on me.
"However, while there seems to be a sex-positive movement with women and the LGBTQ+ community these days, saying you like sex as a bloke feels seedy. "Instead, I relied on porn to meet my sexual needs in her absence. I felt that if I couldn’t have sex, I wanted to get as close to the real thing as possible, and I figured a quick fix was far better than sleeping with someone else behind my girlfriend’s back.
"I talk about porn with mates, but more in the context of whether we’ve seen a certain series rather than specific details. "I can’t deny that there are negative impacts such as the unrealistic expectations that some men have of women. But if you view it as only fantasy, then porn is safe.”ORLANDO, 48, is a carpenter from south London and lives with his wife and two kids, aged 12 and 14.
"But while we want to be open with them, we’re also careful and make sure we have parental controls on the internet. "While moments like that are quite funny, I do worry about how much sex is out there, especially in terms of the different types available to watch these days. "I’m not embarrassed about the porn I watch, but I only watch things that would happen within a normal sex life.
"Aged 12, I was already being picked on, then when I had pictures of big-breasted blonde girls thrust under my nose by my peers when we were getting ready for PE, I didn’t have the same: ‘Phwoar, look at that!’ reaction they did.
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Why can't the West outrightly ban pornography in all its ramifications? This is a dangerous indulgence
Porn saves marriages
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