,” “When two humans have lived together for many years it usually happens that each has tones of voice and expressions of face which are almost unendurably irritating to the other. Work on that. Bring fully into the consciousness of your patient that particular lift of his mother’s eyebrows which he learned to dislike in the nursery, and let him think how much he dislikes it.
While money might seem like an unpleasant and ugly topic from the perspective of a relationship, it’s important to realize that we aren’t talking about greed or amazing untold wealth. For most people, money equals comfort and security, with an emphasis on the latter. A feeling of security is actually very, very important for any relationship. Studies have shown that if even one partner does not feel secure, itof any relationship.
Ultimately, OP’s fiancé might have to decide if he values sole access to his money over the mental well-being of his wife. Successful relationships nearly always, as compromise is possible, but tends to lead to lots of resentment, which is toxic for most relationships in the long run. Hopefully, OP can sit down with her partner and work out the specifics of how they will manage money in the long run.Anyone can write on Bored Panda.